Think You Know What Leadership Is? Here’s What It Isn’t
Early in my leadership journey, I thought it meant being the boss—calling the shots, taking control. But that thinking led me down a path of missed opportunities. I’ve since learned a lesson I wish I’d been taught on day one.
The Trap
Leadership isn’t about commanding authority. It’s not about your title, your seniority, or being the loudest voice in the room. That mindset leads to teams that comply—but don’t commit. When you lead from control, you create distance. When you think leadership is telling people what to do, you rob them of the chance to grow.
The Fix
True leadership is rooted in service. It means recognizing the value of every team member, speaking life into them, and helping them thrive in their strengths. Your words matter more than your title. Empower people and they’ll elevate you in return. The most respected leaders serve first and lead second.
Challenge
So here’s your reset: check your mindset. What are you doing today that isn’t leadership? Now flip it. Serve. Empower. Care. Because what leadership isn’t is the key to discovering what it truly is.